How to Hold onto Your Independence as You Get Older

You could probably agree here that aging affects confidence. But at the same time here, it’s like there’s this little lie people get fed about aging, like independence is something that just vanishes one day, and then everyone has to scramble. But in real life, it usually happens in much smaller, more irritating ways. Well, sure, sometimes a major accident happens and rips it all away, but fortunately, that doesn't happen that often. 

But what would be those little things, though? Well, it could be Something like driving at night starts feeling like too much,  a loud restaurant gets skipped because following the conversation takes too much effort,  the stairs feel a little less friendly (that’s a big one), or maybe an errand that used to be nothing now feels like it needs more effort. It’s the small stuff. Honestly, you can only do so much about these small inconveniences, but that doesn’t mean you need to feel like your independence is being taken away. 

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Make the House Less Annoying to Live In

Well, annoying, dangerous, just whatéver is in the way that could potentially get in the way of you living an independent lifestyle. Like a home can be loved and still be wildly unhelpful in little ways. How you decorated it years ago might not even be ideal now, for example, the hallway light is too dim, or there are uneven platforms that get people to nearly trip, or even the phone charger is always across the room for no good reason. Sure, there are major ones like stairs, but in general, is it dark? Are there hazards? Are there tripping hazards? Just think about these. 

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What Might Cause You to Avoid Plans?

Well, independent seniors like to go out, they like to stay social, and they just like to do things in general. But what could get in the way of that? Well, the problem here is that sometimes people start opting out because one little thing makes the plan harder. For example, for some people, hearing in a busy room is tiring *due to age-related hearing loss). As you get older, your arch flattens, so maybe shoes aren’t supportive enough for a long walk. 

You probably already know that vision weakens with age, so sometimes glasses aren’t quite right anymore. The phone is hard to read. The car feels stressful after dark. But you get the point here. But honestly, it’s on you to do more research to maintain independence, though, like are premium hearing aids worth it, supportive shoes, getting a new glasses subscription, those sorts of things. So you shouldn’t just give up because things are beginning to get inconvenient. 

Keep the Body Used to Normal Life

It’s generic advice, but this is the secret, though: you need to just be healthy. It doesn’t guarantee you’ll be 100 percent totally active and in great health at age 100, but it helps a lot with prolonging independence. You have to stay super active, as in, active daily, walking, exercising, those things. You have to eat a very healthy diet, and you have to focus on cognitive health (and TV doesn’t really help that). Basically you need to have health at the center of a normal life.

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